Wednesday, May 03, 2006

Ok, Much Better Now

After having a talk with my best friend Ami, and friend Jessica, and hearing all my lovely blogger ladies' comments, I am feeling a lot better! Going to Stats helped too - guess the concentration took my mind to a better state. Just so everyone knows, my freakout session is officially over and I have decided to give the situation some time and space. I think perhaps that would be best, just to let it be (just as the songs says).

I do have some upcoming surf sessions planned for the weekend and the much anticipated Cinco de Drinko! I have swimming tomorrow and I always feel like a rockstar afterwards, and also a Bag-a-Movie with Ami. Life looks so much better when you are totally ripping on The OC and a bad movie.

Thank you all for your great advice and support. I love you my ladies!

XOXOXO ~Leigh

7 comments:

Miz BoheMia said...

Oh wow! Damn time difference! I see I missed a lot but here I am! Though late to the party but....

You mention she had boy troubles... is she a lesbian or bi or just straight? Either way and regardless of her sexuality she sounds like a confused individual who just does not know herself too well. When you know yourself well and are secure with who you are, maintaining a friendship with someone such as you, who has no communication problems and handled the whole thing with her so amazingly well, should be no problem...

Won't tell you be patient and the like... nope... but will say she sounds too ditzy/not serious/inconsiderate/selfish to even have as a friend and let alone be loved by someone as sweet, amazing, loyal, strong and just fab as you!

I agree with Cooper... stay busy, go out, live it up, explore other options and opportunities... having a romantic relationship should not be so hard, let alone a friendship!

And forgive me... but if she is having issues with you and perhaps not liking you?... then HAH! Tell her Miz B says she should kiss my sweet patootie and it is ON! I don't like her. No I don't...

Glad to hear you are feeling better now and getting ready to go party it up! Wish I could be there to give you a big hug! As for Tarifa and no tan lines... fo sho! ;-)

weirsdo said...

I'm also glad you are feeling better. Your last post reminded me of trying to be friends with ex-boyfriends. If you are overanalyzing and obsessing, you probably are not over the person, so I think you've made the best decision. If she has problems, they shouldn't be yours.
Looking back on all that I realize it was such a big waste of time, and had I known I was going to meet Dr. Weirsdo I never would have bothered.

Leigh said...

Hello Hot BoHo Mama and Weirsdo! I am glad you both are here! The girl is straight, and that is why we are not together. But we are friends and have exchanged advice and support between us. Dont worry Miz B - she knows full well the person I am and has reminded me of it several times, and has used the words "beautiful" and "amazing". I just think that we are thinking in different terms and not holding the same communication priorities. I have a couple of sucessful exgf's who I am really good friends with now. It isn't easy at first... and granted to what Ms. Weirsdo said, not being over that person it is almost impossible to have a friendship without personal feelings getting in the way. Which is what is happening here with this girl. I think one of us needs to start dating again... maybe that will help with the situation.

Thank you ladies for the supportive words! Getting everyone's perspective is extremely helpfull in dealing with matters of the heart! Hugs to both of you!

shayna said...

and we love you! :)

glad you are doing better, darlin'...

Hope you have a lovely time on your upcoming surf sessions... :)

cooper said...

Glad you're feeling better leigh - freak out anytime.

Leigh said...

Thank you Shayna and Coop... I am feeling better. You gals are awesome!

Madame Mahima said...

glad youre feeling better leigh! love u toooo
-hug-
(sorry for the late comment!)